It's not women specifically who are dumb at that age. It's young people in general who are dumb.
I bet every single one of you have seen or even done the following things:
Girls being attracted to complete assholes.
Guys becoming the most pussywhipped bitches you could possibly imagine when they get the first girlfriend that puts out.
Girls being unreasonably sexually aggressive.
Guys bragging about shit they likely have never done.
Girls and guys being completely oblivious to blatant advances of the opposite sex.
I know you're older now, Auli, but just for any readers that may be younger: Don't ever comfort a girl that's crying at some party. It gets you absolutely nowhere. You're not the strong shoulder to cry on, you're a proxy girlfriend. She will unload all the penned up frustration off on you and then walk her marry way into her demise. Not because she's fucking retarded, but because half the shit she claims is made up nosense.
Ever listened to your girlfriend complaining about you? Noticed how unreasonable most of those complaints are? That's what she's doing. I fell into that trap more times I'm willing to admit.
Some guys are equally as pathetic. I had a friend that was the posterboy for the "bad guy". He got loads of pussy. Not just by his claims but actually verified. During the time he considered me and my best friend his best friends he'd regularly come to either mine or his place to basically whine and cry about his situation.
Girls will take some brute stud to fuck them. The slutty ones will just message the guy to come by to plow them when their boyfriends are out of town. Happened to him, seen the messages, met two of those girls.
Thing is, for all the pussy he could get by being basically messaged to come by to fuck, he couldn't find an actual girlfriend. Even the fatties were treating him as their boytoy.
You don't want to have a girlfriend that half the city had, so do the girls don't want a guy that's DTF at all times. Whores know and talk to each other.
Don't ever be the pussywhipped one, though. That's the worst guy you can be. Had a friend that suddenly never had time to hang out with us anymore because he got a girl that would let him fuck her. We had organized a cool party, she was going to the disco with her girls. Everybody is going to have a great night, right? Nope, he went to her home at 2000 to wait for her. Told that she will likely only come back multiple hours later and will likely be smashed he went all "I don't care, I want to be there for her when she comes back.".
The fucker eventually faded away completely and could never regain the lost respect when she dropped him. Bros before hoes isn't just a funny saying.
To finish this, the moment of my life when I was the least proud of myself:
I was 17. I hadn't had contact with most of my circle of friends for about a year and came back. I wasn't really away but was in a situation that low-key wasn't deemed socially acceptable for a year. I went from the school they were all in to one where I had to live at the place, dunno what the word for that is. It was only about a kilometer away from my home but none of my previous friends ever bothered to contact me in that year and so I didn't likewise.
So when I came back a guy who was fairly low-rank when I left became pretty much top rank. In hindsight really no wonder since he was a really okay guy. But having been one of the most popular guys and definitely the most well-known guy in the whole city I was jealous.
So there was this girl he liked. I didn't care for her one bit but because I knew he liked her I brought my best game and claimed her. Made out with her in front of him as well. I ditched her five days later. I thought it would feel like a victory but instead I just felt like the total asshole I was.
I have always had that tendency to resent against whatever force I felt pushing down on me. That whole deal made me realize that fact. You think I'm some low-life poorfag? I would behave as such to not only verify your suspicion but verify it to a level that's really uncomfortable to you. You think I'm a well-off snob? I would shove every single last bit of my wealth in your fucking face that I have to make you feel doubly as bad about yourself.
I guess the odd thing is that I get along with all kinds of people. From bums to rich people, I can relate to all of them. I suppose that made many people I've known to think I'm "fake". They think I'm just going along with less intelligent people because it's easy to do so if you're smart. But they don't understand that I actually can relate to most people.
When I was at my lowest point socially, in that internment school, they thought I'd come to them crying about how bad it was. But I didn't. Instead, I got along well with those perceived low-lifes, of which many actually were low-lifes and even retards, but many were just lazy fuckers just like I was.
They expected me to come back crawling on my knees. But instead I realized that I don't need them. They didn't need my in the position I was in, I didn't need them.
In hindsight, I was a cocky bastard. But they were total cunts not worth keeping around as well so I was glad to get rid of them in the years after that. They liked to keep me around for my popularity but also resented me for it at the same time. Since they thought I was just playing along with the people they couldn't hang with they assumed I did the same to them.
They were mistaken but I never bothered to clear that up.
I have no idea where I'm going with this. Sorry for blogposting, I guess. I just felt like unloading this since it's largely what characterized my youth and we're talking about youth-related dumb shit.
rat-fuck wrote: ↑Tue May 23, 2017 9:15 pm
rabidtictac wrote: ↑Tue May 23, 2017 3:08 am
Just don't let it turn you into elliot rodger. A lot of guys are idiots, no surprise a lot of girls are too.
But how else can I become the true alpha male?
You mean "supreme gentleman".